It’s funny… when you’re sitting blissfully in your bubble of ignorance, just happily plodding along without giving life too much thought, everything seems pretty simple.
You do what you do, other people do what they do, and you just keep moving.
Yeah, there are problems every now and again, but you deal with them and move on.
It’s only once you start to dig and try and find solutions that everything becomes so much more complicated.
For example, today I decided that I was going to learn a little bit how to get my wife a bit more excited about ‘adult’ activities. Don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with our sex life, it’s just that it could always be better, you know what I mean?
So I started doing a bit of Googling to see what I could turn up.
I successfully managed to find the biggest group of weirdo’s I’d ever come across. They call themselves ‘Pick-up Artists’. What a bunch of wankers!
Apparently they like to parade around in platform shoes with black eye makeup and nail polish in fluffy hats trying to trick women into sleeping with them using these shitty magic tricks.
All sounds a bit bullshit to me.
So I kept Googling and I found this other site about attracting women and being more alpha called The Attraction Institute. And this is where my head started to get a bit messy…
First of all, I liked the fact that they thought the pick up artist stuff was as weird as I did, but as I started to read more, I got to see a little more of what was going on.
They’re pretty into the deep stuff – looking at why you’re doing what you’re doing and how it’s messing with your life.
I spent about an hour there and by the end of it, I felt like the worst person on earth. Not in a bad way though, it just got me thinking about how much of an arse I’d been to my wife and how badly I’d treated her, all because I wasn’t taking care of my own shit.
It was a pretty big slap in the face to be honest because they just lay it all out there for you to see.
Day 1, huh? This is going to be a tough ride.
I’ve got some thinking and then some apologising to do. I’ll let you know how it goes.
peters says
November 28, 2014 at 6:03 amThere is so much nonsense out there in the male self-improvement area today. I have seen and heard and read it all. I’ve been in it for ten years. I can honestly say, hands down, that the best of the best is Doc Love, period. He is the only one who not only shows you how to find Miss Right, but also how to keep her, and be happily married. His methods have been tried and true for 40 years. Thousands and thousands of “You Changed My Life” letters show how his timeless wisdom is true. It’s instinctual human nature that all men and women inherently know, that we’ve lost because of the brainwashing of culture and media. That instinct knowing, that women love truly strong, respectful, loving, and affectionate men, and that men love sweet, serene, playful, flexible, and giving women. At the end of the day it seems so simple, so human, but we have so much brainwashing to undo. Doc Love is the real deal, because in the end, he truly cares about families, and about the children that otherwise would be hurt as a result of divorce. He said he was put on earth for this reason, to make divorce lawyers homeless. He is truly a good man. Anyway, I just had to share this with you, and hope it serves you and your family well. Least I can do to recommend the greatest love doctor on the planet for a man that has made me fall in love with Ruby on Rails. Thanks Stiff 🙂